How to deal with words you don’t like to hear?

Whenever someone says something hurtful, insensitive or something you don’t want to hear, remember:

1) You are not a fig-leaf that can be blown away by the words of anyone
2) You are giving the person TOO MUCH importance by thinking about and being affected by the negative words
3) Separate the words from the person – discard the words (if they are not constructive) and love the person
4) Don’t see intention behind the words
5) Say ‘I forgive you for the words’ and give a mental hug to the person who’s said words you don’t like
6) Listen to the song in the video below ЁЯША

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рд╢рдмреНрджреЛрдВ рдХреЗ рдЬрдВрдЧрд▓ рдореЗрдВ рддреВ рдХреНрдпреЛрдВ рдлрдВрд╕рд╛ рд╣реИ рд░реЗ Shabdon ke jungle mein tu kyon phansa hai re
Why are you entangled in the jungle of words?

рдкрд░рдмреНрд░рд╣реНрдо рдХреЗ рд░рд╕ рд╕реЗ рддреЗрд░рд╛ рдирд╕ рдирд╕ рд░рдорд╛ рд╣реИ рд░реЗ Parbrahm ke ras se tera nas nas rama hai re
The nectar of God flows through each vein of yours => there is God in you

рдЖрдирдВрдж рддреВ рд╣реА, рдкрд░рдорд╛рдирдиреНрдж рддреВ рд╣реА Anand tu hi, Parmanand tu hi
You are happiness and bliss; you are the creator of the supreme bliss

реР рдореЗрдВ рдЦреЛ рдХрд░, реР рдореЗрдВ рд░рдо рдХрд░, реР рдореЗрдВ рдорд┐рд▓рдирд╛ рд╣реИ Om mein kho kar, Om mein ram kar, Om mein milna hai
We are to get lost in Om, to blend in Om, to to be one with Om

рд╢рдмреНрджреЛрдВ рдХреЗ рдЬрдВрдЧрд▓ рдореЗрдВ рддреВ рдХреНрдпреЛрдВ рдлрдВрд╕рд╛ рд╣реИ рд░реЗ Shabdon ke jungle mein tu kyon phansa hai re
Why are you entangled in the jungle of words?

рдкрд░рдмреНрд░рд╣реНрдо рдХреЗ рд░рд╕ рд╕реЗ рддреЗрд░рд╛ рдирд╕ рдирд╕ рд░рдорд╛ рд╣реИ рд░реЗ Parbrahm ke ras se tera nas nas rama hai re
The nectar of God flows through each vein of yours => there is God in you

рдорд╛рди рдЕрдкрдорд╛рди рд╣реЛрддрд╛ рдХрд╣рд╛рдБ рд░реЗ Maan apmaan hota kahan re
What is respect and insult after all?

рдпреЗ рддреЛ рд╣реИ рд╢рдмреНрджреЛрдВ рдХреА рдкрдХрдбрд╝ Ye to hai shabdon ki pakad
This is just play with words

рднрд▓реЗ рдмреБрд░реЗ рд╢рдмреНрдж рддреБрдЭреЗ рд╣рд┐рд▓рд╛ рджреЗ Bhale bure shabd tujhe hila de
For good and bad words to shake you

рдЗрддрдирд╛ рддреВ рдирд╣реАрдВ рд╣реИ рдХрдордЬрд╝реЛрд░ Itna tu nahin hai kamzor
You are not that weak

реР рдореЗрдВ рдЦреЛ рдХрд░, реР рдореЗрдВ рд░рдо рдХрд░, реР рдореЗрдВ рдорд┐рд▓рдирд╛ рд╣реИ Om mein kho kar, Om mein ram kar, Om mein milna hai
We are to get lost in Om, to blend in Om, to to be one with Om

рд╢рдмреНрджреЛрдВ рдХреЗ рдЬрдВрдЧрд▓ рдореЗрдВ рддреВ рдХреНрдпреЛрдВ рдлрдВрд╕рд╛ рд╣реИ рд░реЗ Shabdon ke jungle mein tu kyon phansa hai re
Why are you entangled in the jungle of words?

рдкрд░рдмреНрд░рд╣реНрдо рдХреЗ рд░рд╕ рд╕реЗ рддреЗрд░рд╛ рдирд╕ рдирд╕ рд░рдорд╛ рд╣реИ рд░реЗ Parbrahm ke ras se tera nas nas rama hai re
The nectar of God flows through each vein of yours => there is God in you

Kesariya Baalam – A rich, colourful, Marwari wedding in a Sikkimese winter

“Kesariya Baalam the to aao ni padharo mahre des” (рдХреЗрд╕рд░рд┐рдпрд╛ рдмрд╛рд▓рдо рдереЗ рддреЛ рдЖрдУ рдиреА рдкрдзрд╛рд░реЛ рдорд╛рд╣рд░реЗ рджреЗрд╕) [O beloved with the saffron coloured turban, I heartily welcome you to my country], is a folk-tune from Rajasthan based on Raag Maand. Part of the Indo-Pak composite culture of Hindustaani music, it is a song of the Thar desert and has been sung through centuries. The tune has been used in movies (Dor, in Lekin by Lata Mangeshkar with lyrics changed, the Oscar-winning Little Terrorist, and recently in 99.9FM by Zila Khan), in Classical Music albums (Ustad Zakir Hussein in the album ‘Music of the Deserts’), in TV soaps (Balika Vadhu), reality-singing shows (Raja Hasan in Sa Re Ga Ma Pa, Aishwarya in Chote Ustad), and sung by Singers from both Pakistan (Mehdi Hasan, Ustad Naseer-ud-din Saami) and India (Allah Jilai Bai, Manganiyars 1, 2, 3). As Siddhartha puts it, the Manganiyars are “a great example of Hindu-Islamic synthesis – practicing muslims who sing praise songs to Hindu gods!┬а And that is besides their musicality!”

In 2005-06, I made a painting with the same title

Painting by Naresh 'Padharo Mahre Des'

After my wedding on 8 December 2003, I had 10-hours of video footage. I’d imagined that I’d edit the video into a 10-minute or 30-minute version (where this song would find a prominent place). I haven’t yet gotten around to doing that (as of 7 Jun 2009), but found some time today to create 4 shorts 30-second music videos from my wedding photos┬а (archa-na-resh wedding) using an online tool. These 4 versions are based on 4 versions of Kesariaya Baalam sung by different singers. The copyright for the music resides with the respective owners (I’ve used what was available freely on youtube). The photos are mine.

Let me know which version you like the best.

Manganiyar version

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Instrumental Folk version

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Raja Hasan version

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Lata Mangeshar version from Lekin

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Walk Alone ржПржХрж▓рж╛ ржЪрж▓рзЛ рж░рзЗ Ekla Chalo Re

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When I watched this beautiful video, was reminded of the great Rabindranath Tagore’s message through his song penned in 1905 when Bengal was to be partitioned:

Have tried to translate it in English with the help of Tagore’s English version and Nikhil Kulkarni’s blog, and the Hindi translation from the English one arrived at). Here’s the song in Kishore Kumar’s voice. [Update Jan 7, 2013: Other versions by Shreya Ghoshal and by Amitabh Bachchan in the movie Kahaani] :

যদি তোর ডাক শুনে কেউ না আসে তবে একলা চলো রে। (2)
Jodi tor đak shune keu na ashe tôbe êkla chôlo re, (2)
जोदी तोर डाक शुने केउ ना आशे तॉबे एख्ला चॉलो रे (2)
(यदि तोरी डाक सुनके कोई ना आए तब अकेले चलो रे
If they answer not to your call walk alone)

তবে একলা চলো, একলা চলো, একলা চলো, একলা চলো রে॥ (2)
tôbe Êkla chôlo, êkla chôlo, êkla chôlo, êkla chôlo re. (2)
तॉबे एख्ला चॉलो, एख्ला चॉलो, एख्ला चॉलो, एख्ला चॉलो रे (2)
(अकेले चलो, अकेले चलो, अकेले चलो, अकेले चलो रे
walk alone, walk alone, walk alone, O walk alone)

যদি তোর ডাক শুনে কেউ না আসে তবে একলা চলো রে।
Jodi tor đak shune keu na ashe tôbe êkla chôlo re,
जोदी तोर डाक शुने केउ ना आशे तॉबे एख्ला चॉलो रे
(यदि तोरी डाक सुनके कोई ना आए तब अकेले चलो रे
If they answer not to your call walk alone)

যদি কেউ কথা না কয়, ওরে ওরে ও অভাগা,
Jodi keu kôtha na kôe, ore ore o ôbhaga,
जोदी केउ कॉथा ना कोए, ओरे ओरे ओ अभागा
(यदि कोई बात ना करे, अरे अरे ओ अभागा
if no one speaks to you, O you unlucky one)

যদি সবাই থাকে মুখ ফিরায়ে সবাই করে ভয়—
Jodi shôbai thake mukh firaee shôbai kôre bhôe—
जोदी शॉबाय थाके मूख फिराए शॉबाय कोरे भॉय (2)
(यदि सभी तोसे मुह फिराए सबको हो भय
if they are afraid and cower mutely facing the wall,)

তবে পরান খুলে
Tôbe pôran khule
तॉबे पॉरान खूले
(तब पूरे मन से
then wholeheartedly)

ও তুই মুখ ফুটে তোর মনের কথা একলা বলো রে॥
O tui mukh fuţe tor moner kôtha êkla bôlo re.
ओ तूई मूख़ फूटे तोर मोनेर कॉथा एख्ला बॉलो रे (2)
(ओ तू मुह खोल के तेरे मन की गाथा अकेले बोल रे
open what’s in your mind and speak up alone.)

যদি তোর ডাক শুনে কেউ না আসে তবে একলা চলো রে।
Jodi tor đak shune keu na ashe tôbe êkla chôlo re,
जोदी तोर डाक शुने केउ ना आशे तॉबे एख्ला चॉलो रे
(यदि तोरी डाक सुनके कोई ना आए तब अकेले चलो रे
If they answer not to your call walk alone)

যদি সবাই ফিরে যায়, ওরে ওরে ও অভাগা,
Jodi shôbai fire jae, ore ore o ôbhaga,
जोदी शॉबाय फिरे जाय, ओरे ओरे ओ अभागा
(यदि सब फ़िर जाएँ, अरे अरे ओ अभागा
if everyone turns away, O you unlucky one)

যদি গহন পথে যাবার কালে কেউ ফিরে না চায়—
Jodi gôhon pôthe jabar kale keu fire na chae—
जोदी गॉहोन पॉथे जबॉर काले केउ फिरे ना चाए (2)
(यदि गहन पथ में तेरे साथ कोई फिरना न चाहे 
If they turn away, and desert you when crossing the wilderness)

তবে পথের কাঁটা
Tôbe pôther kãţa
तॉबे पॉथेर काँटा
(तब पथ के कांटे
then the thorns on your path)

ও তুই রক্তমাখা চরণতলে একলা দলো রে॥
O tui rôktomakha chôrontôle êkla dôlo re.
ओ तूई रॉक्तोमाखा चॉरोनतॉले एख्ला डॉलो रे (2)
(ओ तू रक्त सने चरण तले दे के अकेले डोल रे
O you trample them under your feet and travel alone with your blood-soaked feet)

যদি তোর ডাক শুনে কেউ না আসে তবে একলা চলো রে।
Jodi tor đak shune keu na ashe tôbe êkla chôlo re,
जोदी तोर डाक शुने केउ ना आशे तॉबे एख्ला चॉलो रे
(यदि तोरी डाक सुनके कोई ना आए तब अकेले चलो रे
If they answer not to your call walk alone)

যদি আলো না ধরে, ওরে ওরে ও অভাগা,
Jodi alo na dhôre, ore ore o ôbhaga,
जोदी आलो ना धॉरे, ओरे ओरे ओ अभागा
(यदि दिया न जलाये, अरे अरे ओ अभागा
If they do not hold up the light, O you unlucky one)

যদি ঝড়-বাদলে আঁধার রাতে দুয়ার দেয় ঘরে—
Jodi jhôŗ-badole ãdhar rate duar dêe ghôre—
जोदी झॉड़-बादोले आधार राते दुआर दऐई घॉरे (2)
(यदि घोर बादल में आधी रात में रौशनी दूर हो घर की
When its the middle of the night with stormy winds and clouds, and the light of your house is far)

তবে বজ্রানলে 
Tôbe bojranôle
तॉबे बोज्रनॉले
(तब दुःख की वज्र ज्योति से
then with the thunder flame of pain)

আপন বুকের পাঁজর জ্বালিয়ে নিয়ে একলা জ্বলো রে॥
Apon buker pãjor jalie nie êkla jôlo re.
आपोन बुकेर पाजोर जालीये नीये एख्ला जॉलो रे (2)
(अपने मन में ज्योत जला के अकेले जलो रे
ignite your own heart and let it burn alone)

যদি তোর ডাক শুনে কেউ না আসে তবে একলা চলো রে।
Jodi tor đak shune keu na ashe tôbe êkla chôlo re,
जोदी तोर डाक शुने केउ ना आशे तॉबे एख्ला चॉलो रे
(यदि तोरी डाक सुनके कोई ना आए तब अकेले चलो रे
If they answer not to your call walk alone)

The mouth-organ piece with the soul of the song well preserved:

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Making ourselves useful to others as we live

In Day 36 of his blog, Amitabh Bachchan acknowledged a poem written by the grandfather (Shri Krishna Mittra) of one of the 494 commentators on his previous day entry (where Amitabh had described the person his father, the well-known poet, Mr Harivanshrai Bachchan was).

The poem by Shree Krishna Mitra is indeed beautiful. I believe it brings forth the purpose of our lives and can serve as an inspiration, as it was to his granddaughter Vibhuti.

рд╢реНрд░реАрдХреГрд╖реНрдг рдорд┐рддреНрд░рд╛ рджреНрд╡рд╛рд░рд╛ рд▓рд┐рдЦреА рдЧрдИ рдХрд╡рд┐рддрд╛
(рдЙрдирдХреА рдкреЛрддреА ‘vibhuti love’ рдиреЗ рдЕрдорд┐рддрд╛рдн рдмрдЪреНрдЪрди рдХреЗ Day 35 рдмреНрд▓реЙрдЧ рдХреЗ comments рдореЗрдВ post рдХрд┐рдпрд╛)

рдЖрдБрдЦ рдЬрд┐рдирдХреА рдирд╣реАрдВ рдЙрдирдХреА рдЖрдВрдЦреЗрдВ рдмрдиреЛ aankh jinki nahin unki aankhein bano (those who don’t have eyes, become their eyes)
рдкрдВрдЦ рдмрд┐рди рдХреБрдЫ рдкрд░рд┐рдВрджреЛрдВ рдХреА рдкрдВрдЦреЗрдВ рдмрдиреЛ pankh bin kuch parindo ki pankh bano (become wings of those birds who are without wings)
рдЬрд┐рдирдХреЛ рдЪрд▓рдиреЗ рдореЗрдВ рд╣реЛрддреА рд╣реИрдВ рдХрдард┐рдирд╛рдИрдпрд╛рдБ jinko chalne mein hoti hai kathinaayeian (those who have difficulty walking)
рдмрди рд╕рдХреЛ рддреЛ рдмрдиреЛ рдЙрдирдХреА рдкрд░рдЫрд╛рдИрдпрд╛рдБ ban sako to bano unki parchaiyaan (if you can, become their shadows)
рдЬрд┐рдирдХреЗ рдмрд╛рдЬреВ рдХреЛ рдереЛрдбрд╝рд╛ рд╕рд╛ рдмрд▓ рдЪрд╛рд╣рд┐рдП jinke bazoo ko thoda sa bal chahiye
(those whose arm requires a little strength)
рдпрд╛ рдЬрд┐рдиреНрд╣реЗрдВ рдЬрд╝рд┐рдВрджрдЧреА рдореЗрдВ рдкрд╣рд▓ рдЪрд╛рд╣рд┐рдП ya jinhein zindagi mein pehal chahiye (or those who need to get ahead in life)
рдЙрдирдХреЗ рд╣рд░ рдХрд╛рдо рдореЗрдВ рддреБрдо рд╕рд╣рд╛рд░реЗ рдмрдиреЛ unke har kaam mein tum sahaare bano (become their support in whatever they do)
рд░реМрд╢рдиреА рдХреЗ рд▓рд┐рдП рдЪрд╛рдБрдж рддрд╛рд░реЗ рдмрдиреЛ roushni ke liye chaand taare bano (to spread the light, become the moon and the stars) 

In the same vein, I’m reminded of the lines of the song of a Hindi movie I watched years ago on Doordarshan as a kid…(which incidentally I listened today after all these years. I remember Ashok Kumar singing to a group of kids.

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Somewhere, I’ve been affected by the beautiful lines. Looks like its from the movie ‘Anurodh’ and sung by Manna Dey (the 89-year old legend lives in Bengaluru) and chorus. The lyrics (by Anand Bakshi) speak for themselves:

рддреБрдо рдмреЗрд╕рд╣рд╛рд░рд╛ рд╣реЛ рддреЛ рдХрд┐рд╕реА рдХрд╛ рд╕рд╣рд╛рд░рд╛ рдмрдиреЛ (реи) tum besahaara ho to kisi ka sahaara bano (2) (if you are helpless, become somebody’s support)
рддреБрдордХреЛ рдЕрдкрдиреЗ рдЖрдк рд╣реА рд╕рд╣рд╛рд░рд╛ рдорд┐рд▓ рдЬрд╛рдпреЗрдЧрд╛ tumko apne aap hi sahaara mil jaayega (you will automatically get help and support)
рдХрд╢реНрддреА рдХреЛрдИ рдбреВрдмрддреА рдкрд╣реБрдБрдЪрд╛ рджреЛ рдХрд┐рдирд╛рд░реЗ рдкреЗ kashti koi doobti pahunch do kinaare pe (take a drowning boat to the shore)
рддреБрдордХреЛ рдЕрдкрдиреЗ рдЖрдк рд╣реА рдХрд┐рдирд╛рд░рд╛ рдорд┐рд▓ рдЬрд╛рдпреЗрдЧрд╛ tumko apne aap hi kinaara mil jaayega (you will automatically find the shore)
рддреБрдо рдмреЗрд╕рд╣рд╛рд░рд╛ рд╣реЛ рддреЛ рдХрд┐рд╕реА рдХрд╛ рд╕рд╣рд╛рд░рд╛ рдмрдиреЛ tum besahaara ho to kisi ka sahaara bano (if you are helpless, become somebody’s support)
рддреБрдо рдмреЗрд╕рд╣рд╛рд░рд╛ рд╣реЛ рддреЛ tum besahaara ho to (if you are helpless…)

рд╣рдВрд╕ рдХрд░ рдЬрд╝рд┐рдВрджрд╛ рд░рд╣рдирд╛ рдкрдбрд╝рддрд╛ рд╣реИ hans kar zinda rehna padta hai (we have to smile and live/survive)
рдЕрдкрдирд╛ рджреБрдГрдЦ рдЦрд╝реБрдж рд╕рд╣рдирд╛ рдкрдбрд╝рддрд╛ рд╣реИ apna dukh khud sehna padta hai (we have to bear our pain/difficulties ourselves)
рд░рд╕реНрддрд╛ рдЪрд╛рд╣реЗ рдХрд┐рддрдирд╛ рд▓рдВрдмрд╛ рд╣реЛ rastaa chahe kinta lamba ho (howsoever long the path might be)
рджрд░рд┐рдпрд╛ рдХреЛ рддреЛ рдмрд╣рдирд╛ рдкрдбрд╝рддрд╛ рд╣реИ dariya ko to behna padta hai (the stream has to keep flowing)

рд╣реЛ ho
рддреБрдо рд╣реЛ рдПрдХ рдЕрдХреЗрд▓реЗ рддреЛ tum ho ek akele to (if you are all alone)
рд░реБрдХ рдордд рдЬрд╛рдУ рдЪрд▓ рдирд┐рдХрд▓реЛ ruk mat jaao chal niklo (don’t stop, come on, get up)
рд░рд╕реНрддреЗ рдореЗрдВ рдХреЛрдИ рд╕рд╛рдереА рддреБрдореНрд╣рд╛рд░рд╛ рдорд┐рд▓ рдЬрд╛рдпреЗрдЧрд╛ raste mein koi saathi tumhara mil jaayega (along the way, you’ll meet some friend/companion)
рддреБрдо рдмреЗрд╕рд╣рд╛рд░рд╛ рд╣реЛ рддреЛ рдХрд┐рд╕реА рдХрд╛ рд╕рд╣рд╛рд░рд╛ рдмрдиреЛ tum besahaara ho to kisi ka sahaara bano (if you are helpless, become somebody’s support)
рддреБрдо рдмреЗрд╕рд╣рд╛рд░рд╛ рд╣реЛ рддреЛ tum besahaara ho to (if you are helpless…)

рд▓рд╛ рд▓ рд▓ рд▓ рд▓рд╛ (реи) laa la la la laa (2)
рд▓ рд▓ рд▓рд╛ (реи) рд▓рд╛ la la laa (2) laa
рд▓ рд▓рд╛ (рей) la laa (3)

рдЬреАрд╡рди рддреЛ рдПрдХ рдЬреИрд╕рд╛ рд╣реЛрддрд╛ рд╣реИ jeewan to ek jaisa hota hai (life is the same)
рдХреЛрдИ рд╣рдБрд╕рддрд╛ рдХреЛрдИ рд░реЛрддрд╛ рд╣реИ koi hansta koi rota hai (someone laughs/smiles someone cries)
рд╕рдмреНрд░ рд╕реЗ рдЬреАрдирд╛ рдЖрд╕рд╛рди рд╣реЛрддрд╛ рд╣реИ sabra se jeena aasaan hota hai (to live with patience/perseverence is easier)
рдлрд┐рдХреНрд░ рд╕реЗ рдЬреАрдирд╛ рдореБрд╢реНрдХрд┐рд▓ рд╣реЛрддрд╛ рд╣реИ fikra se jeena mushkil hota hai (to live with worry is difficult)

рд╣реЛ ho
рдереЛрдбрд╝реЗ рдлреВрд▓ рдФрд░ рдХрд╛рдВрдЯреЗ рд╣реИрдВ thode phool aur kaante hain (there are a few flowers and a few thorns)
рдЬреЛ рддрдХрджреАрд░ рдиреЗ рдмрд╛рдВрдЯреЗ рд╣реИрдВ jo takdeer ne baante hain (that destiny has distrubuted)
рд╣рдордХреЛ рдЗрдирдореЗрдВ рд╕реЗ рд╣рд┐рд╕реНрд╕рд╛ рд╣рдорд╛рд░рд╛ рдорд┐рд▓ рдЬрд╛рдпреЗрдЧрд╛ humko inmein se hissa hamaara mil jaayega (we will get our share from these)
рддреБрдо рдмреЗрд╕рд╣рд╛рд░рд╛ рд╣реЛ рддреЛ рдХрд┐рд╕реА рдХрд╛ рд╕рд╣рд╛рд░рд╛ рдмрдиреЛ tum besahaara ho to kisi ka sahaara bano (if you are helpless, become somebody’s support)
рддреБрдо рдмреЗрд╕рд╣рд╛рд░рд╛ рд╣реЛ рддреЛ tum besaaraa ho to (if you are helpless…)

The sad version has an additional paragraph:

рдирд╛ рдмрд╕реНрддреА рдореЗрдВ рдирд╛ рд╡реАрд░рд╛рдиреЛрдВ рдореЗрдВ na basti mein na veeranon mein (not in the village, not in the wilderness)
рдирд╛ рдЦреЗрддреЛрдВ рдореЗрдВ рди рдЦрд▓рд┐рдпрд╛рдиреЛрдВ рдореЗрдВ na kheton mein na khaliyaanon mein (not in the fields)
рдирд╛ рдорд┐рд▓рддрд╛ рд╣реИ рдкреНрдпрд╛рд░ рдмрдЬрд╛рд░реЛрдВ рдореЗрдВ na milta hai pyar bazaaron mein (neither can you find love in the markets)
рди рдмрд┐рдХрддрд╛ рд╣реИрдВ рдЪреИрди рджреБрдХрд╛рдиреЛрдВ рдореЗрдВ na bikta hai chain dukanon mein (nor is peace of mind sold in shops)
рдвреВрдБрдв рд░рд╣реЗ рд╣реЛ рддреБрдо рдЬрд┐рд╕рдХреЛ dhoond rahe ho tum jisko (the one you’re looking for)
рдЙрд╕рдХреЛ рдмрд╛рд╣рд░ рдордд рдвреВрдВрдвреЛ usko baahar mat dhoondo (don’t search outside)
рдорди рдХреЗ рдЕрдиреНрджрд░ рдвреВрдВрдвреЛ рдкреНрд░реАрддрдо рдкреНрдпрд╛рд░рд╛ рдорд┐рд▓ рдЬрд╛рдпреЗрдЧрд╛ man ke andar dhoondo preetam pyara mil jaayega (search within your mind, you’ll find your dearmost lover)
рддреБрдо рдмреЗрд╕рд╣рд╛рд░рд╛ рд╣реЛ рддреЛ рдХрд┐рд╕реА рдХрд╛ рд╕рд╣рд╛рд░рд╛ рдмрдиреЛ tum besahaara ho to kisi ka sahaara bano (if you are helpless, become somebody’s support)
рддреБрдо рдмреЗрд╕рд╣рд╛рд░рд╛ рд╣реЛ рддреЛ tum besahaara ho to (if you are helpless…)

My poem ‘A passage to dreams‘ has similar sentiment.