{"id":129,"date":"2009-10-26T12:47:22","date_gmt":"2009-10-26T12:47:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/naresh.blogsome.com\/2009\/10\/26\/how-to-deal-with-words-you-dont-like-to-hear\/"},"modified":"2009-10-26T12:47:22","modified_gmt":"2009-10-26T12:47:22","slug":"how-to-deal-with-words-you-dont-like-to-hear","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/slis.simmons.edu\/naresh\/how-to-deal-with-words-you-dont-like-to-hear\/","title":{"rendered":"How to deal with words you don’t like to hear?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Whenever someone says something hurtful, insensitive or something you don’t want to hear, remember:<\/p>\n

1) You are not a fig-leaf that can be blown away by the words of anyone
\n2) You are giving the person TOO MUCH importance by thinking about and being affected by the negative words
\n3) Separate the words from the person – discard the words (if they are not constructive) and love the person
\n4) Don’t see intention behind the words
\n5) Say ‘I forgive you for the words’ and give a mental hug to the person who’s said words you don’t like
\n6) Listen to the song in the video below \ud83d\ude00<\/p>\n

[youtube 9frGc5beJPg 600]<\/p>\n

\u0936\u092c\u094d\u0926\u094b\u0902 \u0915\u0947 \u091c\u0902\u0917\u0932 \u092e\u0947\u0902 \u0924\u0942 \u0915\u094d\u092f\u094b\u0902 \u092b\u0902\u0938\u093e \u0939\u0948 \u0930\u0947 Shabdon ke jungle mein tu kyon phansa hai re
\nWhy are you entangled in the jungle of words?<\/p>\n

\u092a\u0930\u092c\u094d\u0930\u0939\u094d\u092e \u0915\u0947 \u0930\u0938 \u0938\u0947 \u0924\u0947\u0930\u093e \u0928\u0938 \u0928\u0938 \u0930\u092e\u093e \u0939\u0948 \u0930\u0947 Parbrahm ke ras se tera nas nas rama hai re
\nThe nectar of God flows through each vein of yours => there is God in you<\/p>\n

\u0906\u0928\u0902\u0926 \u0924\u0942 \u0939\u0940, \u092a\u0930\u092e\u093e\u0928\u0928\u094d\u0926 \u0924\u0942 \u0939\u0940 Anand tu hi, Parmanand tu hi
\nYou are happiness and bliss; you are the creator of the supreme bliss<\/p>\n

\u0950 \u092e\u0947\u0902 \u0916\u094b \u0915\u0930, \u0950 \u092e\u0947\u0902 \u0930\u092e \u0915\u0930, \u0950 \u092e\u0947\u0902 \u092e\u093f\u0932\u0928\u093e \u0939\u0948 Om mein kho kar, Om mein ram kar, Om mein milna hai
\nWe are to get lost in Om, to blend in Om, to to be one with Om<\/p>\n

\u0936\u092c\u094d\u0926\u094b\u0902 \u0915\u0947 \u091c\u0902\u0917\u0932 \u092e\u0947\u0902 \u0924\u0942 \u0915\u094d\u092f\u094b\u0902 \u092b\u0902\u0938\u093e \u0939\u0948 \u0930\u0947 Shabdon ke jungle mein tu kyon phansa hai re
\nWhy are you entangled in the jungle of words?<\/p>\n

\u092a\u0930\u092c\u094d\u0930\u0939\u094d\u092e \u0915\u0947 \u0930\u0938 \u0938\u0947 \u0924\u0947\u0930\u093e \u0928\u0938 \u0928\u0938 \u0930\u092e\u093e \u0939\u0948 \u0930\u0947 Parbrahm ke ras se tera nas nas rama hai re
\nThe nectar of God flows through each vein of yours => there is God in you<\/p>\n

\u092e\u093e\u0928 \u0905\u092a\u092e\u093e\u0928 \u0939\u094b\u0924\u093e \u0915\u0939\u093e\u0901 \u0930\u0947 Maan apmaan hota kahan re
\nWhat is respect and insult after all?<\/p>\n

\u092f\u0947 \u0924\u094b \u0939\u0948 \u0936\u092c\u094d\u0926\u094b\u0902 \u0915\u0940 \u092a\u0915\u0921\u093c Ye to hai shabdon ki pakad
\nThis is just play with words<\/p>\n

\u092d\u0932\u0947 \u092c\u0941\u0930\u0947 \u0936\u092c\u094d\u0926 \u0924\u0941\u091d\u0947 \u0939\u093f\u0932\u093e \u0926\u0947 Bhale bure shabd tujhe hila de
\nFor good and bad words to shake you<\/p>\n

\u0907\u0924\u0928\u093e \u0924\u0942 \u0928\u0939\u0940\u0902 \u0939\u0948 \u0915\u092e\u091c\u093c\u094b\u0930 Itna tu nahin hai kamzor
\nYou are not that weak<\/p>\n

\u0950 \u092e\u0947\u0902 \u0916\u094b \u0915\u0930, \u0950 \u092e\u0947\u0902 \u0930\u092e \u0915\u0930, \u0950 \u092e\u0947\u0902 \u092e\u093f\u0932\u0928\u093e \u0939\u0948 Om mein kho kar, Om mein ram kar, Om mein milna hai
\nWe are to get lost in Om, to blend in Om, to to be one with Om<\/p>\n

\u0936\u092c\u094d\u0926\u094b\u0902 \u0915\u0947 \u091c\u0902\u0917\u0932 \u092e\u0947\u0902 \u0924\u0942 \u0915\u094d\u092f\u094b\u0902 \u092b\u0902\u0938\u093e \u0939\u0948 \u0930\u0947 Shabdon ke jungle mein tu kyon phansa hai re
\nWhy are you entangled in the jungle of words?<\/p>\n

\u092a\u0930\u092c\u094d\u0930\u0939\u094d\u092e \u0915\u0947 \u0930\u0938 \u0938\u0947 \u0924\u0947\u0930\u093e \u0928\u0938 \u0928\u0938 \u0930\u092e\u093e \u0939\u0948 \u0930\u0947 Parbrahm ke ras se tera nas nas rama hai re
\nThe nectar of God flows through each vein of yours => there is God in you<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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